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To really love a man
To understand him—you must first read his heart
For written there are many fears, doubts, insecurities
That he has walled up and fenced in and hidden
So the world will think him strong.

To really love a man
To delight him—you will have to be delighted
For his entire being is poured into the thought
That his fight for strength has won for him
Respect, attention, honor…and you.

To really love a man
To possess him—you must speak recurring vows
Dream your dreams, wish your wishes, speak your promises
In dark skies, and lands of broken promises, dreams deferred
Wishes un-granted, vows unspoken, often.

To really love a man
To caress him—you will need more than willing hands
Your voice, your soul, your mind, your lips,
Will all join with your hands to softly, tenderly
Remove his need to capture strength.

To really love a man
To love him really—you will have to be understood
To allow him to delight you, to possess you, to caress you
For only when he sees in you what you desire from him
Can you taste and breathe, forever his.
-Eddie Thompson-

Did I do all these?